Questions about avoiding things
Each page gives the full answer, free. Read the one that is yours. Then, if you want, find out which part of it is about you.
Why am I so lonely?
Why it happens in a full room, the seven reasons, and why more company is not the fix.
Read the answer · 17 minWhy am I so lazy?
What that word actually does, whether it is depression, and the seven reasons.
Read the answer · 16 minWhy do I procrastinate?
The half of the answer everybody leaves out, the seven reasons, and whether it is laziness.
Read the answer · 16 minWhy do I feel like everyone hates me?
How to tell a real problem from the feeling, the seven reasons, and when to talk to a person.
Read the answer · 17 minWhy am I so indecisive?
The seven reasons behind not being able to choose, what it costs, and the tactics that actually work.
Read the answer · 12 minWhy do I push people away?
The seven reasons people keep others at a distance, what it costs, and what the research says actually works.
Read the answer · 13 minWhat is self-sabotage?
The seven reasons people stop themselves, why it hits relationships hardest, and what helps.
Read the answer · 15 minMore questions are added as we research them. Every page names its sources at the bottom.